Sometimes life sends you a curveball in the form of cancer and you need to reboot your system like you would do your computer.
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You’re probably thinking, ‘Hey, what about me?’ The good news is that you don’t need to go to extremes or take radical steps. The bad news is that we’re not too sure how long you have left. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do anything, and if you do, go out with a bang rather than staying cooped up in your room brooding. Below are 5 things you should do in the first week after your cancer diagnosis. This can be as simple as calling friends and family over for a barbecue or as daunting as preparing to face life again.
Take Stock
In the first week after your cancer diagnosis, you will feel everything that comes with it. You will be sad, angry, guilty, confused, and scared all at the same time. You may also be overwhelmed by all the new information. This is normal, but you can stay more balanced if you take stock of the situation. Start by taking some notes. Write down what you’re feeling, what you’re thinking, and what you want from the situation. You may find that you’re feeling guilt or anger at others for being diagnosed and yourself for being diagnosed. This can be normal to feel so make sure you don’t feel bad about it. If you’re feeling guilty about your health or the health of your loved ones, try to remind yourself that you’re not to blame. It’s cancer that’s caused the disease.
Be Brave
If you’re shocked by your diagnosis, it’s okay to be at first. Chances are that you’ll be in a state of shock too. You don’t need to push yourself to be brave immediately, but you should start being brave as soon as possible. If you’re feeling brave enough, be brave enough to talk to your doctor, even if it’s just a five-minute chat. Be brave enough to read through your diagnosis. Be brave enough to know what to do. Doing things like this in the first week will help you stay on track and stay positive. It’ll also help you stay away from feeling overwhelmed.
Reach Out
If you’ve been keeping to yourself for the past few weeks or months, now is the time to reach out and talk to people. You may have been planning to do this all along, but now is the time. You’ll be amazed at the number of people who want to help you. If you’ve been keeping to yourself for the past few weeks or months, now is the time to reach out and talk to people. You may have been planning to do this all along, but now is the time. You’ll be amazed at the number of people who want to help you. If you’ve been calling close friends and family every few days, now is the time to start reaching out to others.
Be Positive
When we’re faced with a negative event in our life, our brains get confused. The negative event is so intense that our brains stop working properly and we become negative-minded instead. This happens because we are positive. So when faced with a negative situation, we immediately become positive instead. If you’ve been keeping to yourself, now is the time to start reaching out to others and being positive about it. You may be in shock, but you can still find a way to be positive. You may have to lower your expectations, but you can still be happy. You can also read books, blogs, and articles about cancer and take notes on what you’ve read. You can find some solace in the fact that others have faced this type of situation before and survived it. You can also try to find some meaning behind your diagnosis. You may also find that you’re feeling guilty about something. By finding some positive in your situation, you may be able to remove the guilt and move on.
Find Purpose
The worst thing that can happen to someone in the first week of a cancer diagnosis is being told they have a short time to live. You may be told more than that, and you may be told that you only have a few weeks, months, or even a year left to live. The worst thing you can do right now is panic and rush things. If there is a cause you feel strongly about, now is the time to get moving toward it. It’s amazing how just a few simple changes in your life can bring you closer to your cause. You may need to make sacrifices, but it’s important to keep them in perspective. You may also need to ask for help, but this is something every single one of us should be doing anyway. You may feel like you have no time or energy for your cause, but you may surprise yourself with how much you have in you.
Conclusion
The bottom line is that you’re not alone and don’t need to do it alone. You’ll find that the support you need is waiting for you; there’s no need to look for it. The first week after your diagnosis isn’t easy, but it can be done. These are five things you can do in the first week after being diagnosed with cancer. These can be as simple as calling friends and family over for a barbecue or as daunting as preparing to face life again. The good news is that you don’t need to go to extremes or take radical steps. The bad news is that we’re unsure how long you have left. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do anything at all, and if it does mean, you should go out with a bang instead of staying cooped up in your room brooding. These are 5 things you should do in the first week after your diagnosis of cancer. This can be as simple as calling friends and family over for a barbecue or as daunting as preparing to face life again.