EXISTING VERSUS LIVING Most people know the difference between breathing and breathing deeply. One happens on its own. The other asks for your attention. In the same way, there’s a difference between existing and living. Noticing which one you’re doing is the first step toward choosing on purpose. Existing isn’t wrong. It’s a place many…
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Taste is part of the joy of eating. I
Taste is part of the joy of eating. It’s also one of the quiet ways we feel at home in our bodies. When chemotherapy takes that away, it can sound small next to nausea, fatigue, or hair loss. But it can hit hard, day after day, meal after meal. I didn’t expect how sad it…
Read moreTaste is part of the joy of eating. It’s also one of the quiet ways we feel at home in our bodies. When chemotherapy takes that away, it can sound small next to nausea, fatigue, or hair loss. But it can hit hard, day after day, meal after meal.
Taste is part of the joy of eating. It’s also one of the quiet ways we feel at home in our bodies. When chemotherapy takes that away, it can sound small next to nausea, fatigue, or hair loss. But it can hit hard, day after day, meal after meal. I didn’t expect how sad it…
Read moreHow to Find Goodness in Every Day When Life Feels Hard
Every day may not be good, but there’s something good in every day. That line can sound too simple when you’re hurting. But it holds a steady kind of truth, like morning light through darkness, not loud, not flashy, just present. If you’re living with cancer (newly diagnosed, in treatment, or adjusting to remission), you…
Read moreWhen Gratitude Feels Impossible: Finding Meaning in Suffering
No one tells you gratitude and rage can share the same breath. On better days, when pain eases just enough for you to notice light, you might feel both at once, thankful for a friend’s text, furious that you need it. Most days aren’t better. Most days, “look on the bright side” feels like a…
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