Choosing When There Are No Good Options I sat in my oncologist’s office with my wife beside me. He walked through the choices. Surgery that would change my face. Chemotherapy that might buy time but offered no promise. A clinical trial with many unknowns. Standard treatment that we already knew could fall short. Every path…
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Making decisions after a cancer diagnosis
The words land first. “You have cancer.” The room still looks the same, but nothing feels the same. You may hear the doctor talking, see lips moving, yet inside, everything goes quiet. Then the questions rush in at once. What now? What do I choose? How do I stay standing? In that moment, cancer diagnosis…
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Living with Parkinson’s Disease
What does it feel like when your own body stops following your lead? For many people, hearing the words “You have Parkinson’s disease” lands with the same shock as hearing “You have cancer.” Time bends, the room blurs, and a new life begins in the space of a single breath. In this space, I see…
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Handling Decision Fatigue in Cancer Treatment: Tiny Choices That Protect Your Energy
Some days, cancer feels like a full-time job of choosing. Which treatment? Which doctor? Which side effect is “worth it”? Even, what should I eat for breakfast when my stomach already hurts? When the choices stack up, the brain starts to shut down. That heavy fog, the “I can’t decide one more thing” feeling, shows…
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Living With Cancer: Finding Courage In Every Ordinary Day
I picture you at your kitchen table, maybe with a mug cooling beside your hand. The house is quiet, but your mind is not. When you hear the words you have cancer, life splits into a “before” and an “after”. The shock, the fear, the questions about work, kids, money, your future, they all crowd…
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